its a fine line.....

a tight rein over things could be good in some situations...
but letting things slide easily has its advantages....

i always think keeping a tight rein over things could have a -ve effect...
i mean it works for me...
my parents are strict to me when i was young.... no late nights(but i would lie to them occasionally), a strict dinner time for everyone in the family(although that doesn't happen now. its otot presently), no going downstairs to play with kids living in the same block(although i still sneak out with my bro sometimes), etc...

u get the picture.

but at the same time, if they did not have all these rules for me in my younger years, how would i turn out? where will i be now?

how to strike a balance between the 2 is really hard......

i dun want to be seen as possessive but at the same time, i am afraid to lose her....